This morning I felt led to read from Paul’s first letter to the 1 Thessalonians 3:9-10,12-13 NIV:
[9] “How can we thank God enough for you in return for all the joy we have in the presence of our God because of you? [10] Night and day we pray most earnestly that we may see you again and supply what is lacking in your faith.”
[12] “May the Lord make your love increase and overflow for each other and for everyone else, just as ours does for you. [13] May he strengthen your hearts so that you will be blameless and holy in the presence of our God and Father when our Lord Jesus comes with all his holy ones.”
Continuing into Chapter 4 -1 Thessalonians 4:1-12 NIV:
[1] “As for other matters, brothers and sisters, we instructed you how to live in order to please God, as in fact you are living. Now we ask you and urge you in the Lord Jesus to do this more and more. [2] For you know what instructions we gave you by the authority of the Lord Jesus.”
[3] “It is God’s will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality; [4] that each of you should learn to control your own body in a way that is holy and honorable, [5] not in passionate lust like the pagans, who do not know God; [6] and that in this matter no one should wrong or take advantage of a brother or sister. The Lord will punish all those who commit such sins, as we told you and warned you before. [7] For God did not call us to be impure, but to live a holy life. [8] Therefore, anyone who rejects this instruction does not reject a human being but God, the very God who gives you his Holy Spirit.’
[9] “Now about your love for one another we do not need to write to you, for you yourselves have been taught by God to love each other. [10] And in fact, you do love all of God’s family throughout Macedonia. Yet we urge you, brothers and sisters, to do so more and more, [11] and to make it your ambition to lead a quiet life: You should mind your own business and work with your hands, just as we told you, [12] so that your daily life may win the respect of outsiders and so that you will not be dependent on anybody.”
Lately in our teachings at Church, we are learning, as we read Scripture, to look at parallels found in the language and words, as they are meant to draw our attention to sections and often have some relationship, one to the other. This morning I have highlighted the phrase more and more.
The Greek word used here is “mallon” and it is added to verbs and adjectives, it denotes increase, a greater quantity, a larger measure, a higher degree, more, more fully. In the two sentences above the encouragement is to live to please God, and love one another more and more!
I am reminded of Jesus’ response when asked the about the greatest commandments, found in Mark 12:29-31 NIV:
[29] “The most important one,” answered Jesus, “is this: ‘Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one. [30] Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.’ [31] The second is this: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no commandment greater than these.”
Paul certainly is in line with the words of Jesus here. Sometimes we try to make our faith into the complex patterns of life, or demands, and Jesus just cuts through all that to simplify the core, as does Paul. Love God, love people!
We could take the approach of the Jewish Pharisees and ask hundreds of questions about what those words of Jesus actually mean, and define every last iteration and turn it into a massive list of what to do and what not to do. For many of us that is the faith we have been taught, a long list of rules.
The focus of these two commands is relationship, not rules. Paul encourages us to do both more and more! Not focus on rules, but rather pour our efforts into relationship! The only way to know what pleases God is to know Him! The only way to love our brothers and sisters more is to actually know them! Such a simple path, without all the complicated requirements!
If I am really loving someone, I am always trying to bless them, serve them, engage them, make them happy, do little things that mean much, meet them where they are, remove any conditions, and communicate! I do all of these things from a place of relationship, not duty. I could look at the things I do in my marriage as a duty, and I would probably learn to hate them, or I could look at them as expressions of my love for my wife, which causes me to love her more!
Isn’t that interesting? Operating in love, tends to lead us to loving more!
Mallon!
The reason it leads to more, is that this love is then reciprocated by the one we love, at least that is the case in healthy relationships. My expressions of love towards my wife, will often elicit expressions of love form her to me, not out of sense of duty, but out of love and gratitude, and desire for deeper relationship. It is true of my relationship with my honey, and it is true of my relationship with the Lord!
This is supposed to be the path we are on in our Christian walk, loving God more and more, loving one another more and more!
It is pretty simple, and my encouragement this morning is to make sure that this is my heart!
Lord help me to love and please you, and recognize Your love for me! Help me to love my brothers and sisters the way that You love me! More and More!
Amen!